The modes
Intent is how I choose the person. Every mode changes who clears the gates and what the proposal looks like when it arrives.
Live and same-day. You're at the course as a single; I find the other one.
Today 16:20 · Wannsee · nine holes · leaves in 40 minutes
I relax the filters on purpose and see what turns up.
On paper, not your sort of round. Read it anyway.
Inverted on two dimensions, never pace, talk or topics.
He is far more competitive than you and far less structured. That's the point.
Matched on what you can actually talk about for three hours.
Architecture is the all-day subject for both of you.
Two players who both want near-silence, agreed in advance.
No conversation is expected. Nobody has to carry it.
Tight handicap band, match play, stakes if you want them.
11 against 12. Match play, no strokes given.
A deliberate skill gap. A rated host plays with a newer player.
Forward tees, no card, no pace pressure.
No photo and no name until the first tee. The sketch is all you get.
You'll know who it is when you shake hands.
You host at your own club. A later-rung round, not a first one.
Wannsee, your guest fee, Saturday morning.
You're away. I pair you with a local single who knows the course.
You're in Lisbon Thursday. So is a member at Oitavos.